One of the reasons we decided to take the leap and move to Nebraska was because we wanted to become a traveling family. Granted, we could do that from south Florida, but flying with three kids (five plane tickets) didn’t seem realistic for us. Moving to the Midwest has really allowed us to spend more time together not just seeing new places, but making memories as a family.
We started our road trip with a visit to Kansas City and a month later, we pushed it a little further and drove down to Waco, TX to visit Joanna Gaine’s Magnolia at the Silos. Now I know that both places aren’t THAT exciting, but they made up for 30+ hours of driving with our crew. We’re starting to plan our next adventure, but before we head out anywhere else, I wanted to share our
Five tips on becoming a road trip family
Set the expectation- Our kids adapt well to changing environments AFTER we have prepped them. We role-play before loading the car, we talk all about what we are going to and not going to do on the road, we pick out movies to watch on the road and set expectations for them. This way, they are prepared for the long hours in the car and the experience doesn’t catch them by surprise.
Drive through the night– This is easier said than done because WE are the ones staying up through the night and then staying up to tend to little ones thoroughout the day. However, there is no greater sound for a parent then the sound of sleeping babies.
Smart snacks- It’s obvious that you should pack snacks, but when you’re on a road trip with littles, you want to pack snacks that make very little mess. I say you should leave the apple sauce cups and the yogurts at home. I’d suggest pre packaged cheerios, goldfish, apple sauce in pouches, pre sliced apples etc.
Non-spill sippy cups- We like to have no-spill sippy cups per kid. Grace has a pink one, Haddon has a blue one and Emmy has an orange one with elephants on them. They all love their sippy cups and take great pride in putting them in their own cup holder. It’s too cute. Also the fact that they don’t spill keeps the van from all the liquids.
Have a Nomadik subscription- Having a subscription to a monthly adventure box was something Alex and I were really excited about. The Nomadik is a curated monthly subscription box that is carefully curated and designed to encourage people to get out! Such a cool concept!
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Do you have any tips on traveling with your kiddos? We are venturing out and are so excited to see what the future holds for our traveling family!
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One of the things that other moms share with you when you have multiple children, is that no two babies are the same. That’s very evident when it comes to my kids. All three of them have different tastes, and personalities. However, when it comes to nap time, they have all been really good about sticking to the same routine… at the same time! This means that if I play my cards right, I can have some child-free time to do important thing like the laundry or the dishes.
There’s no magic potion that helps them go down at the same time, but there is a routine that we have honed down over the years that works like a charm and today I’m sharing it with you.
Here is our ultimate nap time routine:
Same time every day– I like to put all three babies down at noon regardless of what we have going on. This allows for them to have enough playtime in the morning so that they are tired enough for a snooze and a long afternoon so that they wear out at night. Noon works out for us really well.
Prep them for post-nap time activities– I like to give them a heads up of what to expect post nap time. This give them an incentive to get to bed without putting up much of a fight AND waking up excited rather than cranky. Some days I even hold their lunch time dessert (strawberries or frozen yogurt) for after their nap. Whatever it takes to get rid of those afternoon blues!
Wash hands/ change– sometimes they make a mess of their clothes during breakfast or playtime and this is when I change them out of their outfit into something more comfortable. I also take the time to wash their hands and freshen them up before bed.
Warm milk- this is my secret weapon. My older two will have warm milk in their sippy cups. Emory drifts off to a sweet slumber when I feed her milk from her Playtex Baby™ VentAire®. I’ve used Playtex Baby VentAire for all my babies because they’re BPA free, are designed to reduce colic and reflux. Also, their angled design allows for a semi upright feeding position and prevents ear infection. These days we are using the Playtex baby VentAire however, we also like using the Playtex Baby™ Nurser® with Drop-Ins® Liners. Both work like a charm!
Lovies– all three of my kids have their preferred lovies. Haddon has his blankie, Emory has a stuffed animal and Gracie loves her fluffy pillow. Right before nap time, I make sure they all have their preferred lovey and are nicely tucked in bed. This is a crucial step. I can’t tell you what happens when we misplace a lovie or God forbid we’re washing Haddon’s blankie!
Prayers- we always pray before bed time and nap time. We ask God to help us rest and thank Him for all of the play time that He allowed us to have that day, pray for our family and ask Him to continue to bless us. Sometimes I hear them praying all by themselves and it makes my mama heart so happy.
Let’s face it, nap time is the only time that moms can get anything done around the house. It’s a sacred time around here!! Also, I have learned that when my kids sleep well during the day, they sleep well at night so there’s no skipping naps around here.
Here is to nap times everywhere and to products like Playtex Baby VentAire, that make life easier on us moms!
Since the winter months are rough, we thought it would be a fun opportunity to do something active indoors. Grace has been asking about going ice skating and since Alex’s parents were in town, we thought it was the perfect timing to introduce her to the ice rink! Alex and I have fond memories of ice skating together and holding hands under the lights of the disco ball. We were 13 at the time, and seeing Grace out on the ice gives me all sorts of crazy feelings. We both kept on looking at each other with teary eyes watching Grace improve every minute. She really is fearless and takes after her dad on the skates. We’re also thinking that she may turn out to be one of those really athletic kids that just pick sports up quickly.
We have been talking about taking her skating for quite some time now and she was so excited to finally get out there.
She started with the ice-walker and she was so wobbly holding on with a clenched fist and carried a determined look in her eyes. Alex and I tried to coach her through it, but she dances to the beat of her own drum and progressed as she felt ready. There was one point where she decided she had enough of the ice-walker and pushed it out of the way in front of her. Alex and I just stared at each other in disbelief. She’s so brave and surprisingly strong.
This man and his handsome face. I love seeing him teach Grace new things. He’s very delicate with her but pushes her and she always responds so well.
There was a point where she looked back at me and said “mama you can skate over there. Let me go by myself!” She wanted so badly to catch up to the older girls. I just stood back and gave her some space.
Remember that comment about me giving her space? This is what it looked like. jk but really. I’m not ready for Grace to be as independent as she is right now. I think this is a glimpse of what our future is going to look like. Her wanting to get away and me wanting to hold her hand for as long as possible. Also, this picture makes me want to call my mom.
I think she’s counting down the days to our next visit. My ankles were in so much pain that I may have to sit the next one out. I love this picture above and I wish we had a picture of Alex and I ice-skating together when we were young because I’m pretty sure this is what it looked like. Me so giddy to hold his hand and he so smooth on the ice.
Grace had quite the cheering squad. Her grandparents and siblings sat on the sideline watching her go around in circles getting better every turn. They have been such a blessing to us this past week and we are all going to miss them once they head back home.
Guys it’s Valentines this week and we are elbows deep in heart shaped glitter and pink cookie frosting. It’s so much fun to see Grace get really excited about the holidays and actually want to go out of her way to make the holidays special for other people. This year she wanted to decorate cards and send them out to her friends and grandparents. She was also excited about recording a little video.
She looks so big to me and her personality is really coming through these days. Last week, she asked if we could go camping in our living room and if we could fly back to Florida and go to the beach. She’s also planning a trip to California to visit Giada and has been learning her states and capitols. Anyway. Rambling here. I just really love her and love who she is becoming and I’m enjoying sharing these holidays with her and being able to tie everything back to our faith because God is love (1 John 4:8) and we show His love when we love one another (John 13:34).
I hope that as you celebrate these holidays with your family and friends you can take a minute to thank the One who showed us the ultimate gift of love. His life.
For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life. John 3:16